Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Food to Die For



We don't die in the South, we pass, and almost no one passes without a reception following the funeral, at which three things will surely be present:  Fine china and polished silver, tomato aspic with homemade mayonnaise, and a casserole.  Southern women approach bringing food to the bereaved with the determination and commitment of a civic duty, like voting and wearing pearls.    Food to Die For: A Book of Funeral Food, Tips, and Tales From the Old City Cemetery, Lynchburg, Virginia gives an interesting history of funeral customs, great recipes, advice on transporting a meatloaf and how to write an obituary.  Written with warmth and humor by experienced cook and hostess Jessica Bemis Ward, the book contains 180 pages of recipes, etiquette and anecdotes, benefiting the Old City Cemetery in Lynchburg, Virginia.






In Being Dead Is No Excuse: The Official Southern Ladies Guide To Hosting the Perfect Funeral, inveterate hostess and Mississippi resident Gayden Metcalfe is chock full of Southern customs and literary pathos, sort of like Faulkner's As I Lay Dying, except with humor and Coconut Cake.





And my last recommendation is The Southerner's Handbook: A Guide to Living the Good Life, a compilation of excellent articles curated by the editors of Garden & Gun magazine.  From how to tell a great story, to how to rock a pair of white bucks, the book is filled with more than 100 narrative essays by some of the South's finest craftsmen, hosts and writers.  Want to know how to fall off a horse?  Wear Seersucker?  Make a perfect biscuit?  It's in there.  A great book for a nip of bourbon and a rainy evening's reading.  Oh, hold on, that reminds me.  Speaking of rainy day reading, there's more book I've been meaning to tell you about that I think you'll like...





Nestled in the deep South, The Charleston Academy of Domestic Pursuits was founded in 2011 by Lee Manigault and Suzanne Pollack to instruct aspiring domestic divas on all aspects of gracious living at home.  I especially love their recommendations for throwing a great party.  Among their wise advice to hosts is what to wear and how to start the party right by greeting your guests as though they are the person that you most want to see in the world.  They have terrific ideas for organization, ambiance and food, and their advice to forget the e-vites and either use written invitations or call your guests on the phone, is spot on.  If you can't attend their seminars in person, this "Handbook of Etiquette with recipes"is the next best thing.

Monday, September 8, 2014

Southern Summer Bar


This is an adults-only post, so if you are not over 21 (and you know who you are) please move along, there is nothing for you here.

According to fourth generation New Orleans bartender Chris McMillan, "Southern bartenders need grace, decorum and a sense of theatricality," (Garden & Gun, February 2013) qualities which also come in handy when entertaining family and friends at home. 





It isn't necessary or desirable to recreate the selection or atmosphere of a commercial establishment at home.  A home bar should feel festive, like a party, and it should be warm and personal, which could be as simple as putting spirits and mixers in a basket on the kitchen counter.  

Whether or not we choose to serve alcohol (and that is entirely a personal preference- it's not necessary to serve alcohol to have a good time) in the South, as anywhere else, entertaining is all about being a gracious host.  With a little planning, a few nifty tools at the ready, and high quality ingredients on hand, graceful entertaining is a lot easier to accomplish on the spur of the moment.  Check out Blackberry Farm's recipe for a refreshing Sorghum Mint Julep, here.





The Lewis bag is an essential tool for serving drinks in the heat and humidity of a Virginia summer, because the bag keeps ice dry while you crush it.  A carpenter's joiner mallet works fine- a flat striking head is much more effective at banging ice than a rounded one.





One might also consider a bar spoon, which is about the size of a teaspoon but has a long handle that can reach to the bottom of tall glasses.  This one is especially nice with its perforated bowl.





A stainless steel muddler for mashing fruits or muddling the mint in your mojito,





and a jigger for measuring.





A cocktail shaker is a useful accessory.  Among the possibilities are either a shaker with a strainer lid (personally I have not found one yet that does not leak around the cap and down my arm) or





a Boston shaker set, which has a separate strainer.  This method is less likely to leak, but it does take a bit of practice to master.  





This malachite bottle opener looks great.





Linen cocktail napkins feel special, if you use them, and since we monogram practically everything but the dog here in the South, these would be right at home on a Southern bar.  Brights are especially festive for summer, and setting up a station for entertaining is all about fun.





The important thing is to remember to offer refreshments with a napkin, so if linen is (understandably) too much trouble, paper is a fine option.  A trip to Charlottesville would not be complete without a visit to Caspari to see the new seasonal paper patterns.  I love this appropriately named pattern, Endless Summer.  Find it here.




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Stocking a classic bar seems endlessly complicated with all of the spirits available, but once again, it isn't necessary to try to replicate a nightclub at home.   The editors of Martha Stewart.com, here, suggest that it is far better to have fewer varieties of the highest quality.  

You may love big, intensely flavored gin so filled with complex botanicals that it tastes like the floor of a forest, and there are gorgeous aged tequilas for $600 a bottle, but for simplicity's sake, the spirits reviewed below, while not avant-garde or wildly expensive, are generally noted for their quality, smooth taste for sipping, clean flavor in mixed drinks, and somewhat universal appeal.





One way to integrate trendy flavored liquors, if one feels one must, without investing a fortune in large bottles, is to create a basic bar, then pile a basket or crystal bowl with minis.    

This is very important- In the classic bar manual American Bar, Charles Schuman cautions hosts that a good cocktail is not necessarily a large one, and it goes without saying that one should drink and serve responsibly, and never, ever drink and drive or allow guests to do so.  

It is absolutely not necessary to serve alcohol to be a good host or to have a good time.  There are thousands of articles on the internet that advise hosts how to recognize the limits of guests and prevent them from over-indulging, as well as when guests have had too much and what to do about it.  It is important to check the regulations in your state for drinking and serving alcohol to guests.  MADD reminds hosts not to rely on coffee to sober-up guests, and because only time can make someone sober, recommends closing the bar at least 90 minutes before the party ends.  Read their excellent safe party guide by clicking here.





Vodka-  Hangar 1 Straight vodka is distilled in small batches from Viognier grapes and wheat right here in the U.S.  Ultra-smooth with no burn, it's sippable, and also makes a super martini.  Note:  We're keeping things simple but it would be a grave injustice not to mention Hangar 1's Fraser River Raspberry vodka.  I don't normally like flavored vodkas because they usually taste weird and chemical to me, but this one tastes like fresh raspberries, albeit with a kick.





Rum-  Do not skimp on rum, lower priced varieties do not taste good.  The best rums will transport one (taste-wise anyway) to the islands.  The cheap ones will transport one to a back alley.  This Zaya 12-year old rum will make a rum and Coke that will knock one's socks off.  A luscious blended rum with flavors of maple and vanilla.  Smooth enough to drink straight.





Gin-  The perfect gin and tonic should be clean, dry, crisp and fresh.  Tanquery No. Ten is my favorite all-around gin.  It makes a good dry martini and an excellent gin and tonic.  And here's a little secret, if you normally make your G &T with 2 oz. of gin and 6 oz. of tonic, for a slightly drier, cleaner taste, try using half tonic and half club soda and see what you think.  Rub the wedge of lime around the rim of the glass and give it a squeeze before you toss it in.





Tequila-  Tequila lovers recommend that if one is going to buy Tequila, one should buy 100% blue agave, or just skip it.  Tequila comes in four official aging categories, which are determined by how long the tequila is rested before bottling.   Unlike some other spirits,  a longer resting doesn't necessarily determine the quality.  I choose a "Reposado," which is tequila aged from 60 days to year.  This generally mellows the agave without obliterating the flavor with massive oak.  Herradura Reposado has the color and slight flavor of butterscotch and is smooth enough to drink neat but clean enough to mix, at a reasonable price.






Whisky (or Whiskey)-  Hard red winter wheat along with malted barley and yellow corn, with no rye, make this bourbon distinct.  Delicious and smooth, Maker's Mark has a hint of spiciness and a mellow carmelly-vanilla, creme brûlée flavor without being too sweet.  A classic bourbon for mixing or drinking neat.  I also like Jack Daniels, a Tennessee whiskey.





Kahlua- Kahlua is a versatile liqueur.  It makes several notable cocktails, a grown-up version of hot chocolate or adult's-only dessert-in-a-pinch over ice cream.





A bottle or two of something with a unique flavor for mixing your favorite "house" cocktail, perhaps Campari, St. Germain, Midori or Amaretto.  Right now St. Germain is popular and the beautiful bottle looks quite stunning on a bar. 





Additionally, one might consider bitters, a dry vermouth for martinis, small bottles of good club soda and tonic water, Coke, Diet Coke, Sprite, Ginger-ale (Schweppes) and cranberry juice cocktail.  




An ice bucket and pitcher will come in handy, whether one is serving mixed cocktails or simply lemonade and iced tea.  This 18/10 stainlesss steel ice bucket from Calphalon is double-walled and keeps ice frozen for hours, has a plexi-glass top so it's easy to see when ice needs to be replaced, and the perforations on the scoop are a terrific innovation.  Find it here.  One might also stock good olives and fresh fruit (lemons, limes, and oranges) for fresh juices, beer, and red and white wine.  Ina recommends keeping bottle of good champagne in the refrigerator.

How do you like to entertain?  What are your bar basics?  Do you have a favorite house cocktail?  Recipes, as you know, are always welcome...



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1. via Pinterest 2. via www.Veranda.com, photograph by Sarah Dorio 4. Bar spoon from Everythingbutwine.com 5. Crate & Barrel 6. Pinterest 7. William Yeoward Kelly Shaker 8. Pinterest 9. Malachite corkscrew from Alliance 10. 11. Caspari 12. Photographed by David Fuller  13. Grey Goose Vodka 14. Zaya 12-year old Rum 15. Tanqueray No. 10 Gin 16. Herradura Reposado Tequila 17. Maker's Mark Bourbon 18. Kahlua 19. St. Germain Elderflower liquor 20. via Pinterest

Monday, August 18, 2014

The Lady's Life


I don't know if I'm just ready for Fall weather or what, but I've been in the mood lately to write about some beauty, style and lifestyle subjects that probably fall outside of the usual Jennings & Gates theme.  I love visiting those of you who post using WordPress, so I decided to launch a new blog, called,  The Lady's Life, on that platform.   I will still be posting here at Jennings & Gates as always, but the new site will (as you can probably tell from the title) have content that relates mostly to women.  It has been daunting, but a lot of fun learning WordPress, and I'm looking forward to hearing what you think about it.  So stop over and say hi, and be sure to let me know if you notice anything on the site that doesn't work quite right with your browser.  (Oh, and just a note, it is lady's life, singular possessive.  The plural address will take you to a ladies faith ministry site.)

Friday, August 1, 2014

What Happens in Memphis...


I am a vegetarian.  Except in Memphis.





This is revealed without ceremony to whomever might be a (surprised) companion when I sidle up to the window at Central BBQ and order a massive rack of ribs with extra "bark," that heavenly, dark, heavily smoked crust.  The young lady taking orders laughs when I say, "No I don't want beans, or potato salad, or slaw.  (Well, okay, maybe a little slaw.)  Just ribs please!"





I know, you've been to Arthur Bryant's in Kansas City and Sonny Bryan's in Dallas.  You've tasted the other-worldly fanatical barbecue brilliance of Greg Gatlin in Houston, and you love that crazy tang in the Carolinas.  But, I'm here to tell you folks, if you have never had Tennessee barbecue, your finger-licking life is not complete.  





The generally accepted method for sussing out life changing barbecue almost anywhere in the South is to look for great piles of oak and hickory or pecan wood stacked outside a small building maybe made of brick, or concrete block or corrugated metal.  If you pass an old motel and a pawn shop, you're close.  If you smell woodsmoke, and the parking lot is packed with locals, and there is a line out the door, you're there.  Do not be alarmed by the Wonder Bread truck.  There will be no ancient grains, low-cal, high fiber buns for your pork shoulder sandwich, and I promise, after one bite you will not care.





The meat will probably be rubbed with a secret concoction of dry spices and marinated for a day or two, then cooked low and slow over oak and hickory in some contraption that is, as Garden & Gun's John Edge says, "a feat of country boy ingenuity."  Read his terrific article about the Tennessee Barbecue Trail here.  Hungry?  If you leave now you can be there by dinner time.





What is your favorite barbeque?  Check out Cassie Johnston's no-fail recipe for delectable slow-cooker ribs (above) at Backtoherroots.com, here.


1.  Photograph by Central BBQ, 2249 Central Ave. Memphis, TN 2. Photography by Peter Frank Edwards for Garden & Gun, June/July 2011 3. Photograph by Jennifer Davick for Southern Living  4.  Photo by Hector Sanchez for Southern Living 5.  Helen's Barbeque, Brownsville, TN.  Photography by Peden + Munk from The Smoke Road by John T. Edge, Garden & Gun magazine, June/July 2012  6. Photograph by Cassie Johnston of Backtoherroots.com.